I am getting aged day by day, Cannot do the whole household work , I cook food, wash clothes, kitchen work , Listen ! Aditya's Papa ! Get me a daughter in law, let me retire and let her only take care of the entire house.
This is something we usually hear from many ladies who has a son of age near about 22. But are the daughters of others for this only?
The parents of a girl child who nurture their daughters with all love and affection . They never differentiated between there male and female Childs then why this orthodox society does?
Especially Mother-in -laws , who forgets that they are also women and think as if the daughter-in-laws are just like an another article in the house, Today the crime against women is increasing , the days are not very far when we will say crime against women by women is also increasing. The moment word "in law" is added the entire behavior changes. Being a mother she would be best but when she only becomes Mother in law ! ...... nothing to be written here, rest story we all know!
The honorable supreme court of India in its great concern expressed that daughter in laws should be treated as Family member and not as a housemaid!
Probably its the story of every house that when the son comes from the office he is served tea on the table and after two hours when the daughter in law comes back from her office she is served with all torture and blames of not taking proper responsibilities and not cooking dinner. After all these things from where the hell they expect love and affection for such ladies! The girls who have always been treated as the princess are treated very badly in such situation. No doubt suicide cases are at surge.
For such people it's my humble request don't marry your sons! Just simply hire a maid for 2000 bucks and live happily and let the girls also live happily.
As per the court :
“A daughter-in-law is to be treated as a member of the family with warmth and affection and not as a stranger with respectable and ignoble indifference. She should not be treated as a house maid. No impression should be given that she can be thrown out of her matrimonial home at any time,” a bench of justices K S Radhakrishnan and Dipak Misra said.
“Respect of a bride in her matrimonial home glorifies the solemnity and sanctity of marriage, reflects the sensitivity of a civilised society and eventually epitomises her aspirations dreamt of in nuptial bliss.”
“But the manner in which sometimes the bride is treated in many a home by the husband, in-law and the relatives creates a feeling of emotional numbness in society,”
The man who tortured his wife has been put behind the bars for seven years! but think of the family who has lost their daughter!
Can the loss be repaid by putting him behind bars?
The question would be unanswered. It's the duty of the husband to take care of his wife, in all manners , be it emotional, financial, or social.
We hope all the families understand this and give a better place to daughter-in-laws in the house , the situation would change when they would be treated as daughters and at that point of time one would witness how her mother in law become the mother for her and father-in-law would become the father for her and rest follows.
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