One cannot be always good with everyone. Saying “NO” often becomes a problem and it ruins relationships for longer term. Continuously saying yes from everything gives an image of yours that you are a humble and nice person; compromises you make become the right of others over a period of time. Yes! It costs too much being nice to everyone and thus difficult too. There are diplomatic people who easily escape by giving the tricky solutions to the problems they face but it’s really difficult for simple person because when they put forward what the feel it becomes an image related issue for them and people start considering them BAD!
- Causes Depression: The peer pressure one face every day of being good always causes depression and makes the life difficult.
- Loneliness: The simple people who want to live on their own terms are often forced to live alone and the loneliness they have to face becomes the biggest issue of life.
- Jealous: Jealousy of others also becomes a hurdle of their life.
- No support: Such people don’t even get support from others when they need it most. It makes their soft heart even harder.
- They don’t like you: One of the major problems is the people start spreading wrong words about you due to which the simple people have to face ignorance and disliking of others
- High expectations: The society can bear NO, and that’s the main reason of expectations.
- Arrogant: They start treating you as arrogant where-as you are just putting forward your view -points.
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