Life is a gift of God to us, we all have a purpose but what is it ? has to be explored and realized.
Suicide is very common act nowadays, it has become contagious and we hear about it every now and then. Be it Zia Khan or Pratyusha, a college girl doing studies in Kota or an IIT aspirant, a daughter-In-Law or lover, a farmer or a businessman. Why do they find it to be the easiest option for getting rid of the grilling situation? Let’s dwell deeper to know more !
A person standing at the finishing line of his life should ponder at least for a blink that why is he doing so? Think for a while for whom is this suicide? Will you be able to kill the problem or oneself? Don’t be rude to oneself cause others didn't care about you? Don’t do this for them who never pat your back when you won? Not for what you didn’t achieve this year but can outshine yourself next year? Or for those who judged you by their perception which wasn’t justified. Remember we don’t have to commit suicide to kill the problem rather survive to erase it.
Think about the following 8 points before you do the best act of stupidity!! ‘The so-called Suicide”.
· Parents: Think of the parents who gave you birth and brought everything under your reach which you desired. They kept themselves deprived of needs to fulfill yours. How would this hit them? No parent can ever sink this thought. Every parent cherishes the dream to see their kids conquer the world and not to succumb to this stupid act. Don’t we all share days when we used to get a small wound or fever, and parents used to be on their toes, now think what will happen to them after you?
· Kids: By committing suicide you are going to leave your kids orphaned. Is your problem worth such a loss? Don’t punish your own child for the others mistakes!
· Spouse: The one single person with whom you have decided to spend the entire life, it’s equals cheating to leave him/her alone just for few rupees of debt that you couldn’t pay or an argument that couldn’t reach an amicable solution.
· Life Goals: The goals of life are far bigger than the silly problems around. If you are unable to find any goal right now, no issues! Take a break and think again, set new goals and the shine of victory is the best way of giving an apt answer to those who made you suffer.
· All efforts made to reach here: Think about the efforts which you have taken to reach here. For few errant situations or thoughts such as what others will think, Is it wise to waste everything that one has gained till date? Can mere performance in an exam is a parameter by any stretch to describe the efforts made? If you have been sincere in your efforts but the results didn’t correspond to it. Don’t fret .. Just give it an another chance.
· History can be rewritten: Life gives tough situations to everyone. The form, phase and terms of problem may differ from one to another but the tensions are same, the sleepless nights are same for all . Few make them a stepping stone and grow and few would not bounce back. Be the winner. Win your own weakness and rewrite the history. By doing the stupid act don’t be a looser.
· 10 happy moments: Even if the above does not help than close your eyes and think about 10 best moments of your life and try to recreate them for yourself. If you got cheated in a relationship than instead of crying get up and gift yourself that you got saved from getting into a bigger trap.
· This too shall pass:As the nature’s universal law is that nothing is permanent in this world this too shall pass. Wait and watch and let destiny play its game!
The Fighter is one who gets up and fight when people say he won’t and he feels he can’t!!
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